For Pa on Father's Day

Our friend Phil spent his life asking questions. What is real? What is human?

We spend most of our life working, to make money, so we can enjoy life. But do we?

Someone said that in the end, as you breathe your last breath, you will never say, "I should have spent more time at the office." But you will regret not spending more time with your family, friends, traveling or doing whatever it is you truly love. I've spent nearly five years trying to write this damn book. Why? To leave a legacy -- something that will live on. That's why I'm so glad you've written "Things I Remember." Be sure and finish it, ok? And, it goes without saying that our spiritual life is of the utmost importance -- whatever form that might take. John Lennon said it best in one of his songs, "the only thing we take with us is our soul." We've got to be at peace with ourselves.

But, the hardest part is in the day to day living -- making the moment count. Living each day as though it might be our last. I don't mean to sound morbid, just aware. Not to take things for granted. To appreciate what we have and those who are dear to us -- our loved ones. I look at Isadora lying on the rug. She has changed my life. She's only been alive two months, yet she teaches me things every day. The way she frolics and plays, and delights in the breeze blowing the long blades of grass. She is in the moment. The way she whimpers if I ignore her for too long. She demands attention. She forces me to notice what's really important. Hugs and kisses and making time to play and enjoy life.

So, when your friend said, "you can't imagine what a difference that drop of cream makes" I know he's right. Isadora lying on the rug makes my house a home. You being close to Deborah, our phone calls or visits (when we finally get the chance) make it all worthwhile. On Father's Day, be sure and enjoy a drop of cream! Wish I was there to give you a hug and kiss.

Love, jami 6-12-2001